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No pain no gain.

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  Pain. It’s a kaffarah say they. How many of us really think of it as expiation to erase our sins when pain befalls us? One thing that we need to remind ourselves is that pain doesn’t come in one form…but many forms. From physical body ache like stomachache, headache and fatigue to the heartache like sadness, sorrow or distress.   Narrated Abu Sa’id Al-Khudri and Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, “No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that.”   I have been sick for almost two weeks now and it’s not easy for myself nor people around me. Most of the time I try to apply the-rule-of-life act the way I want to feel. Jovial I was then. But then when the day goes and the virus decides to party harder in the abode of my bodily system, I succumb. That’s when I feel defeated and want to RIP (momentarily).   I’m trying to search for the silver linings of happiness in the mass of dark clouds. When breathing becomes a […]
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Reverse Psychology Towards Success :)

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Women’s Day, Everyday

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Draft of 3rd ZCOOP Article. Keeping up with Woman’s happiness. What husbands can do. There can never be enough of celebratory days that remind us of special events and individuals. Like birthdays, father’s days, children’s day, world hijab day etc. So what’s new and trendy on March? Woman’s day, of course! Men, if you have no idea what gifts to get for your women, try considering what treatment you could do for your women on this special day. Say kind words Help lift her burdens Surprise her with little gestures Men, how many of you experience your woman staring at their almost-exploding-wardrobe-full-of-clothes each morning, profusely thinking what to wear like they’re making ground breaking decision and end up saying she has nothing to wear? Don’t sweat. Don’t fret. You are not alone. Once, when I was at my sanest state, free from mental derangement, I expressed my concern to my husband over this obsession for beautiful dresses, pretty scarves and latest design blouses, fully aware that I was falling victim to my own wardrobe. He just said gently “It’s just a phase. I know for women your age, it’s a norm that you ladies get into this hype of wanting to try […]
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Intensed Pretense

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Well, today I learned something about myself. I like my writing to be personalised as opposed to generalised. Ideas flow when I speak based on my personal experience…but forcing myself to write about a topic I’m not familiar with nor avid about, is as good as copying and pasting someone else’s words. It’s all cliches and expected. So I better talk about things that are close to my heart. First rule of thumb of happiness, one must not lie about who they are or try to be someone else. Yes I’m talking about being a contributor of ZCOOP Malaysia, Zalora – zcoop.zalora.com.my I enjoy writing but I just didn’t know why I was spending so much time squeezing words out of my brain for the first two articles. When I started to dread writing, that was when I knew something was wrong somewhere. I had to do something about it. I decided to change my ways. So many modules of happiness and life fulfilment is about being yourself. Being Ateeqa Nasha. Hey, don’t take my words for it. Experience it yourself! You know how annoying it is to be imposed to something you hate or just not yourself. Sure challenges exist, but when it comes […]
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Creativity Quotes – Muzli

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Credits to Muzli.
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